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Author of several English novels.
multidimensional phenomenon and you have to exhaust all possible aspects of it
to get rid of the hangover of break up.
than done. So far there was a hope "Everything is going to turn out
fine", "It is a temporary phase, we would come out of it",
"We will forgive and forget", "Happy days are just around the
corner", "It's a nightmare. It's not real" was the game you were
playing with your mind.
Here are few
time to precipitate. The more you were caught in the whirlwind the more time it
is likely to take. The world was not spinning, you just imagined it. When
precipitation is over you can see the things clearly. You may exclaim "Oh,
My God, was I blind not to see it before. No you were not! You were just caught
in the spell of a Magician.
you go, better you would feel. Antarctica is not a great destination. Choose a
country which is rich in history, culture and social values. A poor country
would change your perspective. You will be amazed how people are coping with
the failures of life. Travel like a traveler and not like a tourist. Even if
you are rich travel by ordinary means of transport, stay in cheaper lodges and
mingle with local people.
country has spiritual heritage, it could change you dramatically and
To come out
of the situation you are strangled in, either you have to Push or Pull. It is
not an ordinary dilemma, but a Metaphysical one. The option is to choose
between "Free Will" and "Determinism". Either take the
responsibility for the situation you are in or accept it as your destiny.
Pen it down
! Whatever, and of course whatever is your exact feelings, pen them down. Do
not relive those moments, you are already over them. Be a spectator and see
what happened as a third person. It is Catharsis and it is going to calm down
Read the best literature of the World.
Ultimately a book will land in your hands that would give you more solace than
anything you have tried so far.
Some of the
best books are "The end of affair " by Graham Green "Licks of
Love" by John Updike and "The company she keeps" by Mary
McCarthy. Read some Philosophical books like "Why bad things happen to
good people" by Harold Kushner and "Notes from the underground"
by Fyodor Dostoevsky.
simple meaning is to apply Cosmetics especially to the face. So do that. It is
strange. You are melancholic but a light make up would enhance your beauty.
Otherwise also, human look more glamorous when desolate. Gloom is aesthetic
emotion. You have a chance to test the aesthetics of the people around you.
means 'be reconciled
after a quarrel'. Though you have already ruled out this possibility and have made
up your mind that you can not be together even if you are the only Homo Sapiens left on Earth. Despite our all
despise the chance exists.
Third, Make Up for lost time. It's ages since you lost
contact with your real world. You have ignored your friends and relatives who really cared for you, for a
stranger. Its high time you patch up with them. They would understand, or maybe
they would care more. Also make up for lost time with your hobbies. Read the
half finished book with a mark, waiting eagerly to be touched by you. Take care
of your garden that once you reared so carefully. Mow the lawn, weed out as you
have weeded out memories, water the plants and talk to your favorite trees. Say
sorry that you ignored them all the while.
Most important meaning of Make-Up is 'the physical, mental, and moral
character of a person'. So this is the Acid Test of your character.